Some Dommes like to keep their political affiliations private as to not deter potential clientele from engaging with them. I fully respect this stance. As they say, a girl’s gotta eat. I would not say that I am privileged enough to be picky. However, my integrity runs far too deep for me to tolerate someone that I absolutely do not fuck with in regards to their value system. If you’ve had a meet and greet me, then you’ve heard this spiel before: I am a passionate professional. I am someone who takes great care and great joy in doing my job well. I love BDSM. I love dominating people. And I know that I do what I love to the best of my capacity when I enjoy who I am spending my time with. If I don’t like you, I’m not gonna do a good job. I’m a very easy-going person, and it’s not hard for me to like someone. Having basic human decency checks off most of the boxes. Unfortunately, it seems that that is becoming increasingly rare. I think it has to do with capitalism and the nuclear family structure; how children experience emotional neglect due to their parents being unable to provide for them and be present in the home. In multigenerational family systems there are more opportunities for children to receive the love and care that they deserve which then allows them to develop greater emotional intelligence, the capacity to self soothe, and above all empathy for others. You see, we don’t develop empathy if we’re not shown empathy and if your parents are too busy, you’re not gonna learn it. If the people whose job it is to love and raise you can barely keep a roof over your head, how are you supposed to learn how to care about yourself and others? So the people that I like are willing to address this in themselves. They are willing to acknowledge that they probably didn’t get everything they needed. Most people don’t after all. The people that I like aren’t perfect, but they are trying to better themselves. The people I wanna work with have a dream of living a happy life and being someone they can be proud of. That’s not a crazy dream, and yet many people don’t achieve it. I want you to be kind. I want you to care about freedom. I want you to care about families. I want you to care. So my political views are this: Free Palestine. Fuck ICE. Decolonize your hearts and minds and return the land to its stewards, the indigenous tribes that have been here since the beginning. Respect your neighbors. Love your neighbors. Love yourself. Know that you are worthy of love. Demand reparations for the diasporas, communities that are descendants of people who were displaced through slavery. Do not worship billionaires, they will not save you. They don’t care about you. The average person is much closer to becoming homeless than be becoming a billionaire. Protect trans people. Protect children. Protect animals. Protect the land. Not everything is meant to be bought and sold. Not everyone comes with a price. Just me. 600 an hour, baby. A girl’s gotta eat.
Author: Pepper LaFaye
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Gang Member Activities
Today I updated my fetlife. She has been more neglected than my website, but I’m starting to get my consistency going!Part of what makes it desirable to be on FL is having friends there. I am very thankful for my community of fellow professionals, and I love the my space energy of being able to display relationships on my profile on FL.There’s something really endearing in showing off the people that you love that also love you. It is something that many social media platforms today are missing.OK, so if you remember my space, then you probably remember the top eight drama but!!! We’re adults now, and we don’t have to be dramatic with it. Instead of passive aggressively removing someone, you could just talk to them about your feelings. (OK radical I know, but it’s been proven to work.)Anyway, all of this to say that my fellow providers that I’m close with are now on my profile so if you’re curious who I would recommend to see when I’m not available, check it out! -
Fresh Meat
My website will be given new lifeblood in the form of my cute commissioned portraits being added (finally!) as well as my darling devoted dog coming on as a guest writer for my blog. This is awesome because I still have my nails and I like them! They aren’t going anywhere!!! But I do have things I want to share, so puppy will be provide ancillary services. Everyone say thank you to RiffRuff.
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Nail Extensions
Both a nightmare and a dream.
To my anxiety babies out there, oh loves do I see you. Since my youth I had bit my nails as a habit, along with an assortment of other destructive little tendencies that harmed me. My nails had never gotten very long and I had kicked all my other behaviors I decided didn’t serve me. It was time for a change.Yay nails! But!
Jesus fucking Christ this change is a pain. Although I no longer scratch my coochie too hard and give my clit a fright, typing without error continues to elude me. I haven’t added the most recent reviews I’ve gotten yet and it’s been months since I have written a blog update. FOR SHAME!
Anyways I’m working on it. We’re developing new typing postures. We’re practicing with enunciation for voice-to-text so he doesn’t botch the whole damn piece of writing. We’re considering enlisting some of you favored subbies as scribes.
Not going to lie I am enticed by the opportunity to creatively occupy you with precarious torture contraptions while you endeavor to faithfully transcribe my words to the World Wide Web.Ok cramp, done for now.
xoxo
Pepper
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GOD DAMN MOTHER FUCKING FORM IS FIXED
A big thank you to My IT bestie who tore out the malfunctioning bits and replaced them with working bits.
Also thank you to all the darling individuals who reached out to Me about the issues they were experiencing. You horny helpers impressed Me greatly and I am so excited to meet you all in the flesh.
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Ass Ass Ass Ass
I often ponder the human condition, and the percentage of perverts who look for vulnerability vs the percentage of perverts who want a performance of personality.
I know myself to not appeal to the later. I wonder if the average kinkster is looking to disconnect from reality fully. I think I am far too aware of it to play at apathy or ignorance.
I also build a better pocket of heavenly bliss when I have a foundation of trust with my sub on our mutual understanding of reality. To be frank: the world is bad right now. Terrible things are happening. If you can’t say that and feel the weight of it on your heart, I don’t know if you can feel the full depth of the euphoria I offer. There is something in such a vulnerability that saturates you.
I think the regular person is looking to distract from the pain, not lean into the humanity it offers you.
I hope those who want to feel deeply and discover what that offers can find me. 🙂
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Ten-hut! Sluts at attention!
I am so thankful for all the positive feedback on this site hellooooo?!? You spoil me with praise.
Good. Keep it up.
Ok so photos aren’t back yet thus I’m dropping two more lofi pics.
You are welcome.
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Waiting for development
took some super cute pics but my photographer is still working on tweaking them, Lucky for you, I have a couple teasers from my phone testing photos.
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The Besties
Sometimes there are clients that are just so reliable and consistent the relationship grows to something much bigger than BDSM.
I have been blessed to have a few experiences like this, and I hope to have more now that I can be more prolific with my work.
I am talking about my BDSM Besties: Clients who have become so familiar to me that they aren’t just clients, they are community.
Let me be candid: in this line of work, people can be awful. I would argue that it has to do with the decline of community. I don’t think many people know how to treat other people anymore. It may have something to do with the pandemic, it may have something to do with a lack of 3rd spaces. I know it has something to do with white supremacy culture, and the rampant individualism that plagues this country. But regardless of the cause the result is clear: people are rude, entitled, and flakey.
There are days that I have felt like a battered ship in the storm having to vet inquiries for my services. There are times when I have felt that I did not want to do this work anymore.
But every single instance of fatigue I have felt has been met by my BDSM Besties with compassion.
My BDSM Besties are the reason I love what I do, because they make me believe in people again. I believe there are more loving, kind individuals out there who just want to get nasty in a judgment free place.
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THE WEBSITE IS UP!
FINALLY! I know so many of you have been edging- I mean on the edge of your seats for this site to be finished. Thank you all for your continued patience with my recent health issues interrupting the development. And ofc THANK YOU BOOBOO for helping me make this whole thing happen. Everybody thank Booboo in the comments for his hard work.
If you’re new here, I have been an underground Domina for a number of years now due to some bat shit people and their crazy and unsafe choices which include but are not limited to stalking me and repeatedly threatening my life. YIKES! get a hobby amirite?
But lo, thanks to a talented lawyer and a generous sexy bestie, I am free from harassment and now able to build up my notoriety! (And you can bet your ass I will be doing just that.)
So what’s next for Pep? Booking Booking Booking! Get your ass in my calendar NOW and maybe you can be one of my lucky co-stars. That’s right, I am working on creating a library of content to be released. I am still deciding which platform would be the best to use, so if you have input you know I want it. Remember Pepper does NOT trust the government. (And neither should you!)
Anyhoo~ This has been a long time coming, and I am thankful for all the subby wubbies that have been checking in on me and rooting for my successful return. I am here to stay.